Good Pick Up Lines

I want to do a Q&A with you, my dear reader. I'd like you to ask me questions about dating and seduction in the comments of this post and I'll answer them to the best of my ability in an upcoming post. I know you'd like to challenge me and see if I'm the real deal so just fire away with the questions and I'll be looking forward to answering them.

Today I'm going to list some good pick up lines that are rather cheesy, but also effective!

1. Hi, I'm an asshole will you be my friend?
   
2. Some say there are seven wonders in the world.
   
3. It's my birthday! How about a birthday kiss? [Is it really your birthday?] No, but how about a kiss anyway?
   
4. Is this the Matrix, because I think you're the One!
   
5. Hey, wanna be a pirate with me? Maybe we could hook up.
   

Here's an article that I published for EzineArticles that you might want to check out, good stuff!

Ezine Article!

Cheers,

Ed.

Good pick up lines, and canned material, is for everyone, and this is why! How many times have you heard the same cheesy lines roll off the lips of a woman? "Just be yourself" is probably the most common answer women have when it comes to courting and dating. I personally have no intention to dispute this statement, but a rewording might be useful, instead of "just be yourself", it'd rather exchange it for "be your best self".

See, when it comes to women and dating, your best performance will always be those nights when you're "on fire", when great lines and interesting conversation is just jumping out of your mouth, as if you were in a James Bond film. Unfortunately, for unknown reasons, we can't always be in this state of mind, we're not always in a great mood and we're not always "on fire". That's why I like to use canned material, and good pick up lines, so that I always have something prepared to spark the conversation if I should find myself feeling in a less than formidable shape for the evening.

For this reason, I've prepared a few exercises for you so that you can start creating your own pick up lines and canned material that you can use when you're out on the town.

1. Sit yourself down with a pen and a piece of paper and try to come up with good pick up lines that you could say in a specific situation to start a conversation with a girl, for example (in the bread section of your supermarket) "Wow, you like bread too? That's soo awesome, now we can be superbest friends! "

2. Try to write down some conversation starters that will work anytime, anywhere. For example "Hey, I can only stay and talk with you for a second before I have to leave, but I just have to ask you, do women really find David Bowie cute?"

3. Try to reminisce times when you had great amounts of fun together with women, what kind of things were you talking about at that time? Write down the topics, don't bother with specifics though. The next time you're out on the town, try to bring up those topics and see if you can get into the flow of things.

Well, gentlemen, that's all for now. I hope you've learned something! The next time, we'll be talking about closing the deal, how to get the phone number, the kiss, the make out and finally, how to close the deal properly!

Cheers for now,

Ed.

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Do you dread calling a woman and setting up a date on the phone, do you have fears about running out of stuff to say to her? Good pick up lines only comes in when you first meet the woman so today I'm going to talk about how to play solid phone game. Here are some pointers that no man should be unaware of before calling his hot date.

In many cases you have to do most of the talking, make up good conversation topics before picking up the phone to call her.

Don't set up the date the first time you call her. Make an initial phone call and chat for just five to ten minutes in order to build up the connection between the two of you.

If you can't think of anything to say to her you should try doing some roleplaying with her (not the D&D kind) where you say something like, "hey, if we were on a vacation together where whould we go?" And talk about all the crazy things you would come up with during the trip.

Women communicate differently than men on the phone, never do a one minute call to set up a date like you would do with your friends to meet some place. It's important that you build up a good vibe first, and then when the conversation is going well ask her out.

You should always end the phone call first. This signals that you're not-needy and a dominant guy, both which are major turn-ons for women.

Sincerely,

Ed

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Hi Seducers and Lovers! I want to welcome you to todays post! Today I'm going to talk to you about something other than good pick up lines.

Saying that girls are interested in clothes and fashion might be the understatement of the century. If you don't believe me, next time you visit a lady friend of yours just ask how many pairs of shoes she owns. The thing is though: if women are into fashion you damn well better be into it as well, at least enough so that you know how to look stylish and know what clothes and colors look good on you. You see when a woman measures a man that she's just met up to 80 percent of her impression of you is going to come from your clothes.

It's possible that you're just simply not the naturally best looking guy out there, but I guarantee that if you can find the clothes that suit you, women are going to notice you. Women tell me all the time that they desperately want to meet a classy guy and few things give off that vibe more than wearing the right kind of clothes.

What should you be looking for then? It's important that you wear the right colors as well as clothes. You might have heard that people can be grouped into one of the seasons of the year, that means if you're fair skinned and have blonde hair you should wear light colors. Colors like beige and light brown will look great on you, also cool colors like blue works great. On the other hand if you're more dark skinned with dark hair you should wear dark and deep colors, warm colors like dark red will probably look great on you and make you stand out in a crowd as well as making you look damn good.

When shopping for clothes always go for quality before quantity. It's much cooler to have a few items of high quality than lots of clothes that gives off a cheep feel.
Women usually know what brand of jeans are expensive and trendy and which ones are not, so investing in a good pair of jean is one of the most important things you can do to get women to notice you.

It's also really important to groom yourself well. Get a good haircut, haircuts are one of those things where you can convey a lot of personality in an easy way. Personally i learned lots of things about how to dress and groom myself from the guys at The Stylish Man. This book is practically my bible when it comes to questions about grooming and dressing myself to look irresistible to all women I come in contact with. Don't go through life without this book, frankly it's just insane how much more women notice me nowadays since I started applying all the tips and tricks in this book.

Well that's all for now, I hoped this served as a good primer on fashion and grooming, it's totally worth really getting in to this stuff when considering what a massive impact it's going to have on your game. Really check out the book, you're going to do yourself a huge favor.

Cheers,

Ed.

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen!

Today I want to talk to you about good pick up lines and conversation starters. This is a fine art that takes many years to master, but with a few tips and tricks and a little bit of practice, anyone can get this handled after a couple of evenings out on the town, learning how to approach and talk to anyone that they desire.

The first thing about great pick up lines that I want to discuss, is their purpose, and how you can utilize them to their full effect. The purpose of a good pick up line is not to dazzle or shake the beauty you're trying to approach, the purpose is merely to start conversation and to hook their attention, creating a desire to have you stick around for a longer conversation.

The way in which you achieve this is quite simple, yet complex in itself and it's nuances. The first thing you want to do is to be different. Throw something fresh out there! Everyone's heard the old "So, do you come here often?" line, and it rarely works, even for the most handsome, rich and attractive among us. Why? Because it's BORING! It's that simple! The goal here is to be interesting, unpredictable and mysterious, yet manage to stay away from being cheesy with canned, boring and predictable pick up lines.

Now, most people don't like to work hard to develop good pick up lines of their own, and for this reason I will give you a few examples that you can use in this very post. These have worked well for me many times, and led to great and fun interactions, phone numbers, make outs, and sometimes even sex and relationships. These may not seem much to the world, but that's not the point, the point is just to start a conversation, set you apart from the crowd a little bit, just enough that he or she will be enticed enough to continue talking to you and want to know more about you as a person. You want to show that you're interesting, funny, unpredictable and mysterious. If you can manage to convey one or more of these qualities in the first couple of seconds of conversation, whoever you're talking to is most likely going to want to learn more about you!

You should definitely go out and try this, see what happens when you use it. But remember, delivery is more important than the words, the scientists say that 70-90% of all the information that we convey is sub-communicated, that's why you should practice it a few times until you get it right.

Here are my examples:

"Hey guys! You know what's funny? Lately I've observed that when you see four people standing together like this, the tallest one always stands right across from the shortest one. Just like you guys are!" (alter as needed depending on how the group is standing)

or

"Hey, you guys aren't bad looking, but I bet we could make you look so much better if we applied some Feng Shui around here!" (then proceed to move them around announcing things like "Oh, if the red dress stands over here we'll have a much better energy flow to the heart chakra", just remember to keep it light and fun!!)

or

Walk up to a girl in the club that looks really bored and say
"Hey, if this is your party face, I really don't ever want to see your angry face!!"
Give her a smile and then proceed with
"Now you owe me a smile!"

Hope you found this interesting! It's all for now, but I'll get back to you all later! ;)

Cheers everyone,

Edward Flichman

Ps. Oh, and another thing, a great resource that has taught me a lot of things about seduction is this great book by Tiffany Taylor, you should definitely check it out!!